Then itâs time to get curious. These are my top tips.
YOUR HEAD
Notice your head chatter and remember that youâre in charge here! Whatâs the ratio of the kind words to negative ones?
Remember a time you were confident? What were you doing? How were you doing it? If youâve had confidence before â you can get it again.
âFake it till you make itâ. Bet youâve heard this gem. Believe you can be confident. Not that you canât or arenât. Remember, youâre in charge of how you feel.
YOUR BODY
Think of it like an instrument â you need to tune it up to get it working properly
Breathe full and deep into your belly
Feeling jittery? You need to shake it off. Put on some music and dance big to change the energy in your body. (20 star-jumps will do the same thing!)
When you talk, make the sound come from your chest rather than from your throat
Vary your tone, rhythm, pitch and pace of your words when you speak. Imagine youâre talking at 70...